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There is no such thing as a perfect relationship

April 30, 2008

Admit it, no matter how hard you try to make it perfect things can really get rough along the way. It doesn’t really boil down to compatibility. No matter how compatible two people are they can still end up in an abyss of conflicts and arguments. There’s no such thing as a perfect relationship. There is always a mar, whether a permanent or temporary one, in whatever kind of relationship. If two people always agree on each other, then one of them is useless. There will always be arguments, misunderstandings, and conflicts that will determine the foundation of a relationship. These things are the external forces that will either strengthen or destroy a bond. It is external because it’s beyond our control. What is internal is how we deal with it when it occurs; dealing with these forces is within our control. These are not signs if a relationship is right or not but rather, these are filters that separate the real long-term relationship from the fling type. While there is no such thing as a perfect relationship, there is such a thing as a strong relationship.



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Posted by jaynchin at 2:15 pm | permalink

Previous Comments

hi!

“If two people always agree on each other, then one of them is useless.”

These words struck me. I’ve been in a relationship for more than two years now, but there are still a lot of problems. We manage, though. I avoid argument if I can; I’m the type who’s not into confrontation. Now I’m wondering. Do I let everything unfold as they are supposed to? Thinking about it, yes. I see the point in what you said. Thanx!

Posted by nice at May 2, 2008, 10:37 am

I don’t know, but my husband and me have been married for 24 years and as far as I’m concerned he’s perfect for me. Well, I can’t say if he thinks of me that way too, because the very light disagreements that we had were usually caused by me.

Forgive me if I sound like I disagree, but in my opinion, a perfect relationship is something that lasts, irregardless of the difficulties both faced along the way. I guess both should work for a relationship to work. Patience, forgiving, and understanding are the factors for a perfect relationship.

thanks, by the way, for the add. I like your posts because it makes me think deeply.

Posted by the_sphinx at May 2, 2008, 11:31 am

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